The first thing that people usually notice about me is that I’m tall – 1.93m or, if you prefer, 6’5″!
The second most common comment people make when they meet me is that they can’t place my accent. That’s because, after growing up in South Africa and leaving for the UK when I was 26, I’ve lived and worked in England, Scotland, Europe, Africa, Australia, the Middle East and the USA.
After a successful corporate career that spanned 20 years and took me around the world implementing IT solutions, it dawned on me in 2009 that the time had come to draw a line under that experience - to follow my heart.
I’ve worked through many tough and dark emotional times in my life and discovering EFT in 2003 was literally a life saver. Being an EFT practitioner and trainer alongside my ‘day job’ was rewarding in some ways but I was finally ready to take a leap of faith and start my own full-time therapy and training practice; and that is how this site that you are looking at right now was born.
In 2013 I realised that, as rewarding as private client sessions were, and as great results my clients were getting, that training was my true passion and stopped offering private client work to focus exclusively on training people around the world in these fascinatingly powerful techniques.
Here’s how it’s helped me…
I used to get so anxious speaking to large groups of people that my neck would get blood red; after just two tapping sessions (in 2003) that is now but a distant memory and I now love presenting and speaking to audiences around the world.
- I worked my way out of deep dark depression, hopelessness and despair
- I released uncontrollable food cravings that caused me to put on so much weight that I had to buy new clothes
- I released a host of self-limiting beliefs, mostly of the ‘I’m not good enough’ variety
- and the list goes on! I believe that continuing to look within and staying on our own healing road is essential to those of use who work with other people.
Besides EFT and Matrix Re-imprinting I also gained experience with other transformational tools, including active visualisation, NLP, Hypnosis, ShadowWork, Byron Katie, The Sedona Method and I have also had extensive training to become a professional speaker, trainer and facilitator.
I love exercise, swimming, nature, reading, movies, good food with good friends, and the simple things in life; my life is blessed beyond reason!
|“Surprised to find myself smiling during our sessions…” I called Bennie after a friend recommended EFT. During each individual session, I found Bennie to be a good listener who applied his experience and intuition to understand my situation very well. He identified some issues that I had not realized where relevant to the challenges we were addressing. I felt safe, which was important as Bennie’s tools and methods were completely new to me. - Nigel|
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