Here are general Frequently Asked Questions, and about how the programme works. If you are already a member, click here for your FAQ
I am strapped for cash already and I'm not sure I want to invest more money in myself now.
A: That’s easy, and that’s why I’ve done away with the $775 membership fee; just pay what you can afford!
I have a lot of personal ‘issues’ that I want to resolve first before I can look to the future.
A: You are the best one to decide where you priorities are, AND as you would already know if you worked through the free preview call (download here http://manifestmoremagic.com/look-inside), it is your unresolved past that has created your current situation – 100%!
You’ll know best what is right for you; in my experience, deep change happens when we so this work in a holistic way; clearing out our dramas and traumas of the past – to cut us free, and consciously creating our future – to draw us towards it.
MMM allows you to do both.
I’m doing so much already I don’t want to commit to something else; I think I’ll wait until things slow down a bit and then join in.
A: It is easy to get caught out with the ’If/Then’ principle. ‘IF I have more money, or time, or a better job, or a better partner … THEN I’ll do what I want.’
If you are stuck now in a life where there is too much to do and a lack of time, a lack of peace, a lack of breathing space and a lack of wealth, that’s a perfect the reason to join MMM because you’ll learn how to be the CAUSE of your life rather than a victim to whom life just happens to.
How much do you really believe the time will come when you have ‘enough time’? How long has things not ‘slowed’ down’?
Nobody is coming to rescue you, it has always been and will always be 100% up to you.
If now is not the time for you to join MMM, then now is not the time. But if your reason for not joining is because you don’t have enough (time, money, health, love) – then it’s the perfect time to join.
It really is as simple as that because MMM will help you move from experiencing life as a victim, to experiencing life as a creator.
How much time would I need to dedicate to MMM?
A: If you had a guarantee that you would get wealthier and happier and healthier if you spent 30 minutes a day on yourself, 5 times a week, would you do it? Even if it meant giving up 30 minutes a day of reading your favourite newspaper or watching your favourite TV program?
That’s what you need to ask yourself.
You are the only one that can take charge of your future and create it how you say you want it. For most of us, that takes work. Thinking about changing something usually doesn’t change a thing; there are no shortcuts and nobody else can do it for you – period. The only way through is to DO it, but first you need to decide that you are worth it and that you actually WANT things to improve.
Are you worth 30 minutes a day, 5 times a week?
I think if you answer that honestly you’ll find that the answer is ’Yes, you are.’
Then that’s what it’ll take.
What if I don't have a PayPal account?
Why do we tap in the five 'persons' ('name', 'you', 's/he' etc) when we do temporal tapping, as demonstrated in the preview call? Does it make any difference if they just use ‘I’ like Donna Eden does?
A: When we tap on the ‘5 persons’ we get to access 5 different parts of ourselves; it’s like 5 different paths to yourself, all a little different, and all leading to the same place – YOU. Sometimes these different angles, (or aspects, as we call them in EFT) is exactly what is needed to shift the blocks (tap out the old belief) and tap in the new one.
It’s like each of these 5 different ways of tapping has a different flavour, or texture, and by including them all you give yourself the best possible chance for change so yes, tapping in these 5 ‘persons’ is different to tapping in the first person. Experiment with it yourself and see if you notice a difference.
What's a good book to read to learn more about children and creation?
A: Eastern Body, Western Mind by Anodea Judith (thanks to David)
I'm stuck in a difficult situation at work; what do I do?
A: Here’s what I think. (play to listen, or download mp3) Stream or download MP3 below [ca_audio url_mp3=”https://s3.amazonaws.com/bennienaude/mmm2/faq/MMM+How+to+become+unstuck+from+difficult+situation.mp3″ css_class=”codeart-google-mp3-player” autoplay=”false” download=”true” html5=”false”]
I am in a job that pays extremely well and I don't have money issues. However, I'm not sure I want to follow this career path anymore, and I'm certainly nervous about starting something new and going backwards in pay. How would MMM help me with this?
A: One of the first things you’ll learn on MMM is that you don’t need to make any sudden or radical life changes – unless you want to, of course.
Quitting my 6-figure salary without sufficient reserves and ending up sleeping on the floor for 6 months was part of my journey to eventually create the MMM programme; it most certainly won’t have to be part of yours! If I’d known then what I learnt since, I’d have done it differently for sure.
As you start incorporating the moves into your life (and especially, as you get absolute clarity on how you’d like your life to change), the craziest ‘coincidences’ and weirdest synchronicities start happening and opportunities open up in ways that you’d never even thought of, meaning that you can make the transition as sudden or gradual as is right for you.